dualityflipped:

Since trans day of visibility is tomorrow:

Trans day of visibility isn’t just for white gender-confirming passing binary trans people.

It includes every trans person. Trans POC. GNC trans people. Non-binary people. Trans people who don’t pass. Trans people who dont want to medically transition. Trans people who haven’t medically transitioned. Trans people who are still in the closet.

All trans people.

I have seen harmful beliefs, especially in the Transmasc community, that you have to medically transition, that you have to pass, you have to conform to gender roles, etc. to be ‘actually trans’.

And that’s not true.

Transmascs don’t have to be manly buff men they can be whatever they want to be. If a Transmasc wants to wear a dress. They can wear a dress. Transmascs don’t have to use he/him they can use whatever they want. If they wanna use she/her they can use she/her.

Transfems don’t have to be feminine dainty women they can be whatever they want to be. If a Transfem wants to wear masculine stuff. They can wear masculine stuff. Transfems don’t have to use she/her they can use what ever they want to use. If they wanna use he/him they can use he/him.

Non-binary people don’t have to be androgynous they can be what ever they want to be. Non-binary don’t have to use they/them they can use whatever they want to use.

Stop trying to control others gender and gender presentation. Because someone’s relationship to their gender is NONE of your business. Stop excluding trans people because they don’t fit your idea of ‘ideal trans’. All trans people are valid and deserve respect.